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			<title><![CDATA[Re: Pain, and relativitity.]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[Hey man, haven't heard from you in a long time, last thing must have been that post you put up here about your brother... how are you doing man, what are you doing with yourself these days, where are you living? Insert a/s/l and other such personal questions
Muchlove <3 Hit me up if you have googletalk or msn / any IM that can add those - staccatox@gmail.com or the same at hotmail.com]]></description>
			<author><![CDATA[dummy@example.com (Staccato)]]></author>
			<pubDate>Mon, 08 Jun 2009 16:20:48 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[Re: Pain, and relativitity.]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[Well just give me a call sometime silly. :P]]></description>
			<author><![CDATA[dummy@example.com (Hitchhiker)]]></author>
			<pubDate>Thu, 23 Apr 2009 07:08:07 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[Re: Pain, and relativitity.]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[[quote=Hitchhiker]I thought this was Mature Discussion.

Albeit, this website is extinct.. but you have plenty of other ways to get a hold of me Scott, rather than publicly calling me out. As opposed to asking me how I'm doing. But.. ya know.

I'm fine. Thanks for asking.[/quote]


What?  I am honestly completely confused here.  I meant no offense.  All I was asking if now, a few months later, you were ready to consider seeing some sort of counselor.  You said in your post that you may, but at the time that you were not ready to talk about it yet.  I still mean what I said in my previous post, that for the reasons I stated that it is going to be important to go.

I am glad you are doing fine, but that wasn't really part of what I was asking about.  So I hope this is a misunderstanding?  If so that is probably my fault, I only wrote 3 words so maybe it wasn't clear what I was asking exactly.  I didn't think I was "publicly calling you out" or anything like that.  I was only asking about things we were already talking about here.

At any rate I wasn't trying to be a dick or something.  I was seriously just trying to look out for you.  I know it can be hard to do certain things for yourself and that at least in some situations having somebody try and make sure you follow up on stuff can be a good thing.]]></description>
			<author><![CDATA[dummy@example.com (Legal_My_Deagle)]]></author>
			<pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2009 23:19:30 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[Re: Pain, and relativitity.]]></title>
			<link>http://www.blizzpub.net/forums/post/736675/#p736675</link>
			<description><![CDATA[When do the doors open? Me and das should come hang out sometime.]]></description>
			<author><![CDATA[dummy@example.com (Thayme)]]></author>
			<pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2009 17:21:37 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[Re: Pain, and relativitity.]]></title>
			<link>http://www.blizzpub.net/forums/post/736674/#p736674</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Been better been worse.

Feel as if I'm growing up in a sense, my life has changed all sorts of dramatically lately. 

Bar ownership is pretty fantastic. Kinda stressful during the remodel, but we're getting closer to being open so that's nice.

Ex girlfriends are, as always, my weakness. Leave me feeling foolish and lame, but the sex is so good I keep going back.

Tired today too.. Long weekend.]]></description>
			<author><![CDATA[dummy@example.com (Hitchhiker)]]></author>
			<pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2009 03:17:20 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[Re: Pain, and relativitity.]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[<3 Hitch

Your head doing ok?]]></description>
			<author><![CDATA[dummy@example.com (Bartholomew)]]></author>
			<pubDate>Sat, 04 Apr 2009 05:17:53 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[Re: Pain, and relativitity.]]></title>
			<link>http://www.blizzpub.net/forums/post/736668/#p736668</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Mature discussion doesn't mean anything anymore... As far as I can tell all rules are dead, along with the site.]]></description>
			<author><![CDATA[dummy@example.com (LiQuiDcHeEsE)]]></author>
			<pubDate>Sat, 04 Apr 2009 03:57:39 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[Re: Pain, and relativitity.]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[I thought this was Mature Discussion.

Albeit, this website is extinct.. but you have plenty of other ways to get a hold of me Scott, rather than publicly calling me out. As opposed to asking me how I'm doing. But.. ya know.

I'm fine. Thanks for asking.]]></description>
			<author><![CDATA[dummy@example.com (Hitchhiker)]]></author>
			<pubDate>Fri, 03 Apr 2009 23:13:33 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[Re: Pain, and relativitity.]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[[quote=Hitchhiker]I'm gonna. Just not quite ready for it.[/quote]

How about now?]]></description>
			<author><![CDATA[dummy@example.com (Legal_My_Deagle)]]></author>
			<pubDate>Fri, 03 Apr 2009 19:23:21 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[Re: Pain, and relativitity.]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[Not really visiting this site anymore lest it be due to severe procrastinational tendencies.

You have my sympathi on this one.

"I'm going to make my mom proud every day of my life. And while I do this for her, primarily I do it for myself."


As weird as it may sound, I kinda envy you for this. Cause I have no such motivation - other than I dont wanna turn out like trash.



My thoughts tonight are yours.]]></description>
			<author><![CDATA[dummy@example.com (Salle)]]></author>
			<pubDate>Sun, 07 Dec 2008 19:14:07 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[Re: Pain, and relativitity.]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[[quote=Hitchhiker]until then it'd be like talking to a wall.. no one really gets the feeling, despite the effort put forth.[/quote]
On the other hand, that might just be the kind of situation that they're trained to deal with. 

Its ultimately up to you, but consider that maybe you're not supposed to be 100% ready when you go to see them. That's one of the sorts of problems that they're there to help you on.

If you decide that you want to wait until it's easy, then either you'll never go or you'll already have somehow managed to give yourself all the healing you need, rendering their help unnecessary.

Again, its your call, and its good that you're being cautious about not putting it off for too long. All I'm saying is that I can't imagine ever reaching a point when you will be easily ready to talk about something like that.]]></description>
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			<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2008 18:07:37 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[Re: Pain, and relativitity.]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[I'm gonna. Just not quite ready for it.

And finding the "right" person to talk to, especially in this situation, will probably be a bit of a trial in and of itself.

I know there are subtleties to this that I don't quite grasp, despite my decent self-awareness, and that talking to a "professional" will be a healthy thing.. It's just, like everything, something that comes at the right time.

But since day "one" I've known that I will have to talk to someone, and I'm not putting it off until it's too late.. I'm just waiting for the right time. Which will be soon enough.

There's a certain amount of empathy that can be provided, but nothing quite similar to what I've felt.

I just need to get to the point where what I've felt myself I can honestly relate and communicate to someone else on the same level.. until then it'd be like talking to a wall.. no one really gets the feeling, despite the effort put forth. Not until I can allow that to happen, at least.

And I'm not quite to that point just yet.

But I know I'll get there, soon enough.]]></description>
			<author><![CDATA[dummy@example.com (Hitchhiker)]]></author>
			<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2008 07:15:34 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[Re: Pain, and relativitity.]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[Actually, car sexiness aside, counseling is not a bad idea. You are doing quite well considering the circumstances but counseling can be good for a person in any number of situations. It can take a while to find the right "fit" of course.]]></description>
			<author><![CDATA[dummy@example.com (Archandrea)]]></author>
			<pubDate>Sun, 16 Nov 2008 04:25:26 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[Re: Pain, and relativitity.]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[It was a shock to hear about man.  I am not sure what to say besides that.  It was just one of those things that even after you hear about it and talk about it and see it is in fact reality, it still seems quite unreal.

One thing I want to say though, that I really hope you don't take the wrong way - and if you do then just remind yourself you don't care what I think - but if I were you, I would go to counseling even if I didn't think I needed it.  My reasoning is that in my own life I have gone through some seriously horrible things that were terrible for me.  You probably know at least some of the things I am talking about and even though it wasn't in the news, everything I went through was really awful for me especially at the age I was at.  But anyway all I wanted to do was try and ignore its effect on me and "move on".  It was the simple, easy thing to do, or so it seemed.  Except it doesn't work like that, shit like this sticks to you whether or not you act like it is there or even fully realize the future impact it will have on you.  And when you get to that point you can't go back.

So, don't make the same mistake I did.  If I were you, I would go to counseling even if I didn't think I needed it, like I said, just to try and make sure that I don't end up all fucked up 5, 10 years down the road, where you had no kind of way to predict the effect it has on your mind that far down the line.  I guess what I am saying is do yourself a favor and go through with some "damage control".  Don't let this mind fuck you anymore than it already has to.  Please.]]></description>
			<author><![CDATA[dummy@example.com (Legal_My_Deagle)]]></author>
			<pubDate>Sat, 15 Nov 2008 00:14:36 +0000</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[David: <3!

The car is very sexy, it's true.]]></description>
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			<pubDate>Fri, 14 Nov 2008 21:46:25 +0000</pubDate>
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